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What really causes ADHD and what you can do about it without drugs.

ADHD is not a deficit, disorder or neurological defect, but a highly refined skill that backfires. It is a learned defense mechanism that can be unlearned. Find out how it is not a lifetime curse that has to be accepted but a very treatable obstacle. Read about the non-pathological neurology of ADHD.

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  • Dr. Weathers personal history of ADHD

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    My repeated failure at academic tasks, particularly reading, sparked raw terror in me. In elementary school, we had regular reading circles. Six or eight kids would sit around in a circle taking turns reading. I would sit there in a cold sweat as my turn came closer and closer. It was my teacher's version of Edgar Allen Poe's "The Pit and the Pendulum." The reading blade kept coming closer and closer.

    To try to save face, I would count the number of children before my turn to read and try to calculate which paragraph I would be expected to read. Then I would go over and over this paragraph trying to work out every word. I would try to memorize it because I knew that ...

     

 
 
  • Bad feelings trigger ADHD, which works as a Defense Mechanism against bad feelings

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    ADHD as a Defense Mechanism

    The ADHD is a Conditioned Attentional Avoidance Loop ,  appears to be radically different, but in actuality it is a logical extension of traditional theories of psychopathology.

    Traditional theories, despite their differences, embrace Sigmund Freud’s notion that psychopathology is the result of an earlier emotional trauma. The adaptation to that trauma results in the psychopathology.

    ADHD works by the same processes and serves the same function as traditional psychological defense mechanisms. In fact, it is best thought of as a defense mechanism favored by children.



    Freud talked about how repression, suppression, or denial, are ways of keeping noxious thoughts and memories out of one’s consciousness. That is, they are attentional avoidance mechanisms that work just like ADHD.

    Freud saw defenses as the patient’s active efforts to adapt, but that ultimately, if overused, backfired. So too, it is with ADHD. Framed in terms of Conditioned Attentional Avoidance Loop Model, the patient is as an active, skilled adapter to the environmental stimuli, just as Freud saw his patients. However, in both cases, defense mechanisms have gone awry.

    Like all defense mechanisms, avoidance behavior functions as a way to spare the ADHD child the unpleasant emotions — whether they are triggered by internal or external experiences. It does this by keeping annoyances out of consciousness. But the defense strategy suggested by the Conditioned Attentional Avoidance Loop Model is more obvious than traditional defenses since:

    1) The behavior of children is less sophisticated and thus more obvious.

    2) The noxious stimuli (parents, teachers, and school-work) are usually here and now a opposed to in the past or far away.

    3) Adults are actively engaged in keeping the child from physically escaping.

    4) Much to the chagrin of the observing or diagnosing adult, the defense mechanisms of the ADHD child are often a reaction to the adult.

    5) ADHD is Felt as an Insult by Adults.

    This last point deserves further discussion.

    My perspective using the Conditioned Attentional Avoidance Loop Model allows me to focus not only on the ADHD child but also on the adults who play an important role in his environment.

    Failure to consider the role of adults in the child’s world has made it difficult to observe accurately and understand ADHD. That’s because the role of the controlling and evaluating adult, whether teacher or parent, is crucial to filling out our picture of the child. The adult is part of the Conditioned Attentional Avoidance Loop and the adult is the one responsible for triggering the attentional avoidance.

    The child, simply, is always maneuvering to stay out of reach, and he does this by directing his attention elsewhere. No matter what you ask him, you get evasive, escapist responses — “I don’t know,” “Doesn’t bother me,” “Sure, I have lots of friends,” or “I don’t care.”

    These responses occur between bouts of looking away, fiddling with things, wandering off mid-conversation, outpouring emotionally, grimacing, or glowering. These responses are an efficient smokescreen that is both difficult and frustrating for the adult to comprehend and respond to rationally.

    Seeing the role of the adult as causal to ADHD behavior may at first feel upsetting and disorienting. We do not like to think of ourselves as the target of someone else’s defense system. The message received is that the ADHD child is defining you as the enemy whether you like it or not.

    This differs from traditional psychology that deals with patients who are defending against some internal or historical experience. The latter is much less aversive than when someone is defending against you. Despite his most caring and benevolent efforts, the ADHD child blots the therapist, parent or teacher out of his or her reality.

    In fact, it is the nature of the ADHD child to refuse to connect interpersonally with you or conform to your demands. He does not seem to understand that you are trying to act in his best interests. Instead, suddenly, the adult is on the receiving end of rudeness, rejection, or insults. Since the adult feels helpless and frustrated in controlling the child’s behavior, he or she feels personally affronted. It is as if your well-meant offer of friendship is being rebuffed.

    Because of this affront to you and your reality, it’s easy to see ADHD children as more defective than they are. Thus, it becomes even more tempting to categorize ADHD children in an unbecoming fashion — as we are likely to do to anyone who rejects us. If the ADHD child does not like us, he must have something wrong with his brain. So we come up with labels like “Minimal Brain Dysfunction” or “neurotransmitter hypothesis,” depending on what is in vogue.

    While teachers and counselors insist that they are professionals and thereby do not react emotionally to the antics of children, inevitably they do respond. Not to acknowledge this emotional reaction is to blind ourselves to a major piece of the dynamics driving ADHD. We have been seduced into focusing on only one part of the feedback loop—the child.

 
 
 
  • ADHD is defective adult logic not defective children's brains

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    Traditional explanations for ADHD contain a plethora of brilliant sounding words that do not accurately describe the problem. After successfully treating hundreds of ADHD children and their families without drugs, it is clear to me that ADHD is not a neurological disorder. Since I can do nothing to change anyone’s brain “hard wiring,” my success must result from learned changes in “software.”

    Think about sitting down to your favorite TV program or with a magazine you’ve been waiting to read. Now think about getting out all the receipts and forms to fill in your IRS return. Compare your own imagined experiences between those two scenes as you read the following.

 
 
  • There is no evidence to support that ADHD is hereditary

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    The argument that because ADHD tends to run in families, it is of genetic origin, is poorly thought out and false.  Here is why. Those who argue that ADHD is hereditary will point out that one or more, usually male, ancestors of the patient also showed ADHD symptoms.  Thus, they demonstrate a correlation between ADHD symptoms across generations.  But correlation is not causation. For example, there is a strong correlation between the midsummer pavement temperature in New York City and the banana crop in Brazil.  I'm sure that hot asphalt in New York has nothing to do with making bananas grow faster Brazil.  However, both are caused by a third factor, warmer weather.

 
  • The real non defective neurology of ADHD

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    The role of dopamine

    dopamine is a neurotransmitter in the brain that causes feelings of well-being, happiness, contentment, and enhances motivation, attention and memory. Contrary to what is implied by neuroimaging studies, levels of dopamine are not static, but can change quite rapidly, depending on the activities and the individual’s feelings about these activities. This is a key to explaining how ADHD works at a neurological level and how stimulant drugs work for children.

    ADHD symptoms are related to, but not caused by, low dopamine in the prefrontal lobes of the brain.

    There is a convergence of neuroimaging, neuropsychological, and pharmacological evidence that dopamine levels are lower in the prefrontal lobes of ADHD children’s brains. This causes poorer attention and memory in those with ADHD. Some parents of ADHD children are pointing to this when they say “he does not want to do anything” or they cannot find any rewards for which he will work. While it may seem that this research supports the “chemical imbalance” theory of ADHD, as you read on, you will discover how this is a result, not a cause of ADHD patterns of thinking and behavior.

 
 
  • ADHD, behavior problems and learning disabilities are different solutions to the same problem

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    ADHD, LD and BD children manipulate the world to adapt to the environment. How each “disability” reframes the aversive situation is its defining characteristic.

    The ADHD child attempts to both avoid conflict and avoid being thought of as stupid. He attentionally checks out of the whole scene. Behavior Disabilities and Learning Disabilities children manipulate how the world reacts to them with behavioral strategies. The Learning Disabilities child would rather be thought dumb than deal with confrontation. The Behavior Disabilities child would rather provoke uproar and confrontation than to be thought dumb.

    Which adaptation pattern develops probably depends on the child’s broader learning history and current reinforcement contingencies. The following examples illustrate the difference in the style and focus of the child’s attentional avoidance strategy.

   
  • When you understand how you think like an ADHD child, then you understand him better

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    In order to better understand ADHD, it is imperative that you see the ways in which all of our common, daily experiences are similar to the thinking, feeling, and behavior of an ADHD child.

    This is important for two reasons. First, regardless of whether you are a teacher, parent, or researcher, little can be gained until you begin to see the world through the eyes of an ADHD child. Invaluable insights are acquired by mapping the experience of a child through on our own personal experience. Formal research experiments can only validate, not originate, these insights. Second, by personalizing the experiences of the ADHD child, we make an important discovery. This discovery flies in the face of traditional medicine, which wants to identify something as broken in the child's brain and fix it, i.e., medicate it.

   
  • What you say may not be what children hear if it triggers their emotions

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    The lightning speed of the ADHD child’s emotional responses to instructions often preempts listening to  what a parent or teacher says. The parent says, “Clean up your room.” But before the parent finishes saying the word “clean,” the child is furious and their listening shut down.

    That’s because this interaction has a history. The child has a conditioned emotional response to the parent’s voice, tone and words. That response is to his feelings of anger, rather than his parent’s instruction to clean up his room. Indeed, the response is so strong that the full request is barely, if at all, heard. The child then acts on his feelings of anger, rather than the merits of the parental request.

   
   
   
   
   
   
  • Frequently Asked Questions

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  • Boys are struggling academically

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    Girls are taking the nation's colleges by storm. They're streaming to campuses in greater numbers, earning better grades and graduating more often. The same phenomenal success shows in high schools, where girls dominate honor rolls, hold more student government spots and rake in most of the academic awards.

    So says a just-released report from the U.S. Department of Education.

   
   
   
   
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